Army Ball

The Army is unlike any experience that we have ever had.  We have learned from it and I'm sure our learning curve has yet to peak.  We went to our first ball this last weekend and it was quite the experience.  Matt was tasked with taking care of the General that was attending the ball so basically, he was a servant for the day.  He had to get him drinks, escort him around all day, pick him up from the airport, take him to meetings, pick him up and take him to the ball, etc.  I figure, if he can do all that for the visiting General, he should do it for me.  You know, massages every night, dinner on the table, everything at my beck and call.  Wouldn't that be the life.  Anyways, the ball has a wide variety of people who attend, one girl was I kid you not, wearing her wedding dress.  Another girl, was in something you would see from Target or some store like that.  They had a professional photographer there, it was like a weird prom with people of all ages.  It was fun, definitely an experience to remember. 

Make them work work make them work!

Every time I ask the kids to help with the dishes they fight over who will get to do them.  I figure I should enjoy this period of time and document it because it will be short lived.  I love having them help around the house it makes me feel like I am not totally messing them up!  Although, the other day Tyler asked me if he did chores how much I was going to pay him.  I think I need to work on the doing chores just because we all pitch in around here.

Monster Truck Jam

We took the kids to the Monster Truck Rally.  It was so fun.  The boys especially Talan wouldn't take their eyes off of the trucks.  It was really exciting for them.  Now Talan and Tyler play monster trucks non stop.  I love watching the boys play together because it makes me feel like the boys are friends.  I would encourage anyone with little kids to take them if it comes to your area.  It was well worth it!

My sister's recipes

My sister started a recipe blog. I feel like she is one of the best cooks I know. Here is a link to her blog if you are ever looking for some recipes.
http://annasrecipefile.blogspot.com/

Do You Watch Private Practice?

I am a fan of the ABC show Private Practice.  In general I like it.  I just watched their season opener about a family with 3 boys, 1 with autism.  She, did not immunize her 2 younger children for fear of Autism taking over them.  I have had many, many talks about immunizations with parents, friends, families, doctors, therapists, teachers, etc.  I personally feel like immunizations can be great but they can be great in delayed doses.  Give your child a chance to mature before you attack their immune system.  In this show parents like me were severely criticized.  The doctors talked about reporting parents like me to child services.  The show went too far.  It may seem like an easy decision to some but till you see the child you know and love slip away from you, people have no right to judge.  We gambled big with Ty's therapy and treatments and we won big.  We were one of the lucky ones.    I would just like to put it out there to whom ever may read this, parents of children with autism love their children so much.  We are not evil people who are interested in spreading disease.  More often than not, if you see a family with autism in it, the whole family is involved rallying around each other.  Think before you judge.  Think about your little children or your future little children.  How would you feel if your son or daughter sat and lined up their toys without saying a word all day?  What if your child never laughed again, never said I love you.  What if your child didn't care if you were there or not because they stay in their own world.  As a parent we are hardwired to protect your children at all costs.  Until you have had to fight for them you never know what you would or wouldn't do.  Think twice before you judge.  Please.

Traditions

I was talking with a few of my "friends" today about the holidays and traditions. I am always looking for cute traditions to incorporate with my own. I love traditions. I think that is part of the reason why I love the holiday season. So, if you have any you would like to share I would love to hear them.

A Good Laugh

Try calling this number for those of you who are into psychology. It is hilarious! 650-388-1117